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JAPANESE VERB

そうだん する

相談 する

to ask for advice, to talk something over

  • #147 most used
  • する verb

Conjugation

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Present and future

now, habits, and what is to come

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI ask for advice
NegativeI don’t ask for advice

Past

finished actions

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI asked for advice
NegativeI didn’t ask for advice

Te-form

て形 · joining actions, “doing”, requests

Form Polite Plain
て-formasking for advice, and…
Doing now (て います)I am asking for advice
Please (て ください)please ask for advice

Potential

可能形 · “can”

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI can ask for advice
NegativeI can’t ask for advice

Want to

たい形 · “want to”

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI want to ask for advice
NegativeI don’t want to ask for advice

Volitional

意向形 · “let’s”, “I’ll”

Form Polite Plain
Let’slet’s ask for advice

Conditional

条件形 · “if” and “when”

  1. If (ば) if I ask for advice
  2. If, when (たら) if I ask for advice

Commands and requests

命令形 · from gentle to blunt

  1. Do it (なさい) ask for advice (do it)
  2. Plain command ask for advice!
  3. Please don’t please don’t ask for advice

Passive and causative

受身形・使役形 · “is done”, “make someone do”

Form Polite Plain
PassiveI am asked for advice
CausativeI make someone ask for advice

How to use そうだん する

One sentence for each tense, the way people say it.

  1. Present and future

    こまった とき は いつも あね に そうだん します。

    When I'm in trouble, I always talk to my big sister.

  2. Past

    てんしょく の こと を つま に そうだん した。

    I talked over changing jobs with my wife.

  3. Te-form

    いま、 おや に そうだん して いる ところ です。

    I'm talking it over with my parents right now.

  4. Potential

    こんな こと、 だれ に そうだん できる だろう。

    Who could I possibly talk to about this?

  5. Want to

    しょうらい の こと で そうだん したい こと が ある。

    There's something about my future I want to talk over.

  6. Volitional

    かう まえ に、 みんな で そうだん しよう。

    Before we buy, let's talk it over together.

  7. Conditional

    はやく そうだん すれば、 もっと かんたん だった のに。

    If you'd asked sooner, it would have been much simpler.

  8. Commands and requests

    ひとり で なやまないで、 そうだん しなさい。

    Don't agonize alone, ask for advice.

  9. Passive and causative

    こうはい に こいびと の こと を そうだん された。

    A junior colleague came to me about her boyfriend.

Good to know

  • The person you turn to takes に: せんせい に そうだん する.

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