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SPANISH VERB

tutear

to say the friendly you to someone

  • Regular -ar verb
  • Gerund: tuteando
  • Past participle: tuteado

Conjugation

Tap any form to hear it. The part that changes is in colour.

Present

Presente · now, habits and facts

  1. yo I say the friendly you to someone
  2. tú you say the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella he/she says the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros we say the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain you all say the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas they say the friendly you to someone

Past

Pretérito indefinido · finished actions

  1. yo I said the friendly you to someone
  2. tú you said the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella he/she said the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros we said the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain you all said the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas they said the friendly you to someone

Imperfect

Pretérito imperfecto · “used to” and “was …ing”

  1. yo I used to say the friendly you to someone
  2. tú you used to say the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella he/she used to say the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros we used to say the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain you all used to say the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas they used to say the friendly you to someone

Future

Futuro · plans and promises; in speech, “voy a hablar” is just as common

  1. yo I will say the friendly you to someone
  2. tú you will say the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella he/she will say the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros we will say the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain you all will say the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas they will say the friendly you to someone

Conditional

Condicional · “would”

  1. yo I would say the friendly you to someone
  2. tú you would say the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella he/she would say the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros we would say the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain you all would say the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas they would say the friendly you to someone

Present subjunctive

Presente de subjuntivo · wishes, doubts, “que …”

  1. yo (that) I say the friendly you to someone
  2. tú (that) you say the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella (that) he/she say the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros (that) we say the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain (that) you all say the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas (that) they say the friendly you to someone

Past subjunctive

Imperfecto de subjuntivo · “if I were”, “si …”

  1. yo (if) I said the friendly you to someone
  2. tú (if) you said the friendly you to someone
  3. usted, él, ella (if) he/she said the friendly you to someone
  4. nosotros (if) we said the friendly you to someone
  5. vosotros Spain (if) you all said the friendly you to someone
  6. ustedes, ellos, ellas (if) they said the friendly you to someone

Imperative

Imperativo · requests and orders; a negative one uses the subjunctive (no hables)

  1. tú say the friendly you to someone!
  2. usted say the friendly you to someone! (formal)
  3. nosotros say the friendly you to someone! (let’s)
  4. vosotros Spain say the friendly you to someone! (all of you)
  5. ustedes say the friendly you to someone! (all of you)

How to use tutear

One sentence for each tense, the way people say it.

  1. Present

    En mi oficina todos tuteamos al director.

    At my office we all call the director "tú".

  2. Past

    Tuteé al médico sin querer y me puse rojo.

    I called the doctor "tú" by accident and went red.

  3. Imperfect

    Mis abuelos nunca tuteaban a sus vecinos mayores.

    My grandparents never used "tú" with their older neighbours.

  4. Future

    Si me lo permite, le tutearé a partir de ahora.

    If you'll allow me, I'll call you "tú" from now on.

  5. Conditional

    Yo no tutearía a la jueza en el juicio.

    I wouldn't call the judge "tú" in court.

  6. Present subjunctive

    Prefiero que me tutees, que no soy tan mayor.

    I'd rather you call me "tú", I'm not that old.

  7. Past subjunctive

    El profesor pidió que lo tuteáramos en clase.

    The teacher asked us to call him "tú" in class.

  8. Imperative

    ¡Tutéame, por favor, que me haces sentir viejo!

    Call me "tú", please, you're making me feel old!

Good to know

  • "Tutear" is to use "tú"; with older people or officials, ask first: ¿Le puedo tutear?

Where you hear tutear

The lessons that teach a form of it, and how they say it.

Spanish · Advanced Level 1

  • En el hospital, todo el mundo se tutea. At the hospital, everyone says the friendly you.
  • En el primer minuto, no tuteé a Lucía. In the first minute, I didn't say the friendly you to Lucia.
  • Algún día me vas a tutear, mi arma. One day you'll say the friendly you to me, love.

Spanish · Fluency Level 1

  • En Triana nos tuteamos todos, hasta con el cura. In Triana we all use the friendly you with each other, even with the priest.
  • En la boda, Encarna me pidió que la tuteara. At the wedding, Encarna asked me to use the friendly you with her.
  • Roberto te tuteará, Encarna, pero le va a costar. Roberto will drop the formal you with you, Encarna, but it won't come easy.

Verbs like this one

The same pattern, on other verbs: regular -ar verb.