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JAPANESE VERB

ささえあう

支え合う

to support each other

  • #247 most used
  • Godan verb (u-verb)

Conjugation

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Present and future

now, habits, and what is to come

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI support each other
NegativeI don’t support each other

Past

finished actions

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI supported each other
NegativeI didn’t support each other

Te-form

て形 · joining actions, “doing”, requests

Form Polite Plain
て-formsupporting each other, and…
Doing now (て います)I am supporting each other
Please (て ください)please support each other

Potential

可能形 · “can”

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI can support each other
NegativeI can’t support each other

Want to

たい形 · “want to”

Form Polite Plain
AffirmativeI want to support each other
NegativeI don’t want to support each other

Volitional

意向形 · “let’s”, “I’ll”

Form Polite Plain
Let’slet’s support each other

Conditional

条件形 · “if” and “when”

  1. If (ば) if I support each other
  2. If, when (たら) if I support each other

Commands and requests

命令形 · from gentle to blunt

  1. Do it (なさい) support each other (do it)
  2. Plain command support each other!
  3. Please don’t please don’t support each other

Passive and causative

受身形・使役形 · “is done”, “make someone do”

Form Polite Plain
PassiveI am supported each other
CausativeI make someone support each other

How to use ささえあう

One sentence for each tense, the way people say it.

  1. Present and future

    ふうふ は たがい に ささえあいます。

    A husband and wife support each other.

  2. Past

    じしん の あと、 まち の ひと は ささえあった。

    After the earthquake, the townspeople supported each other.

  3. Te-form

    ふたり で ささえあって、 いきて いきたい です。

    We want to live supporting each other.

  4. Potential

    ささえあえる ともだち が いて、 しあわせ だ。

    I'm lucky to have friends I can lean on, and who lean on me.

  5. Want to

    これ から は かぞく で ささえあいたい。

    From now on I want us to support each other as a family.

  6. Volitional

    つらい とき こそ、 ささえあおう。

    In the hard times above all, let's support each other.

  7. Conditional

    ささえあえば、 どんな こと も のりこえられる。

    If we support each other, we can get through anything.

  8. Commands and requests

    きょうだい は ささえあいなさい、 と はは が いった。

    Mother said, "Brothers and sisters, support each other."

  9. Passive and causative

    ささえあう たいせつさ を、 ちち に おしえられた。

    My father taught me how important supporting each other is.

Good to know

  • あう on the end of a verb means doing it to each other: たすけあう, わかりあう.
  • Nobody is made to support each other, so the passive sentence shows another verb in the passive.

Where you hear ささえあう

The lessons that teach a form of it, and how they say it.

Japanese · Intermediate Level 2

  • かぞく は ささえあう もの です。 Families support each other.
  • たいへん な とき、 ささえあった。 We supported each other through the hard times.
  • これから も ささえあおう。 Let's keep supporting each other.

Verbs like this one

The same pattern, on other verbs: godan verb (u-verb).